CUPID'S NOTE- ONLINE LOVE

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The internet made the world a global village, people don't have to move so much like before to get things done, especially in parts of the world where trust is not that much an issue. The internet is a place where people interact to bridge  distance.

Friends and long lost  family members reunite online these days. But when it comes to some thing as serious as marriage Social media suddenly becomes a forbidden place to meet people. There was a time church or mosque was an ideal place but now it is said to be also unsafe because some church goers are wolf in sheep's clothing.

We meet people every where, at the bar, bus stop, on air, in the market also online, the kind of people we meet is more important than the place we meet them, the place does not make them who they are. Meeting someone on social media does not  make the person fake, just as we can meet fake people in church we can also meet them in any other place. Social media in a meeting place for people to socialize what they make of it is left to them.  People make big bucks online, some will meet a partner or make great friends, people have also had sad experiences. It is best to be open!

Caution is also important. People lie a lot just to be accepted. Let your intuition guide you (or engage a psychic), do not allow your need cloud your reasoning, sometimes desperation drive people faster than their vision can see, until they get stuck in the mud to face reality. Every information can and should be verified if you have doubts. A real person will always give proof, will make you feel safe and not threatened in any way. Ensure your friends and families know your movement with an online even an offline person who have another connection that is accessible eg. Where they work, mutual friends, where they worship, addresses and phone numbers. A courteous person with good intentions will most likely avoid inviting you to his/her place or any other place that you are not familiar with.

Let goodness access you from any where don't be an obstacle to your own blessings.

Prophetess Lily-Rose 💜

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WOMEN CAN BE ALLERGIC TO SPERM

How to Identify and Treat a Semen Allergy

Is this common?

A semen allergy — otherwise known as human seminal plasma hypersensitivity (HSP) — is an allergic reaction to the proteins found in most men’s sperm.

The rare condition is more common in women, affecting up to 40,000 women in the United States. It’s unclear how extensively this condition affects men who have sex with men.

Studies do show that it’s possible to be allergic to your own semen. When this happens, it’s known as a post-orgasmic illness syndrome.

Keep reading to learn how to recognize the symptoms, your options for treatment, how this may affect your ability to conceive, and more.

What are the symptoms?

You may be having an allergic reaction if you experience one or more of the following symptoms after exposure:

• redness
• burning
• swelling
• pain
• hives
• itching

For women, symptoms usually occur on the vulva or inside the vaginal canal. For men, symptoms may occur on the shaft or the area of skin above the genitals.

That said, symptoms occur any where that has come in contact with semen. This may include your:

• hands
• mouth
• chest
• anus

Allergic reactions to semen are often localized, but some people may experience symptoms that affect their whole body. 

For example, men who are allergic to their own semen may experience severe fatigue, intense warmth, and a flu-like state right after ejaculation.

Overall, symptoms usually start within 20 to 30 minutes of exposure. They may last anywhere from a few hours to several days, depending on the severity.

Severe allergic reaction

In severe cases, anaphylaxis is possible. Anaphylaxis symptoms typically appear within minutes of exposure and require immediate medical attention.

Anaphylaxis symptoms include:

• difficulty breathing
• wheezing
• swollen tongue or throat
• rapid, weak pulse
• dizziness or fainting
• nausea
• vomiting
• diarrhea

CAUSES AND RISK FACTORS

What causes this and who’s at risk?

Semen allergies are primarily caused by proteins found in a man’s sperm. Some research also suggests that certain medications or food allergens found in sperm can trigger symptoms.

Beyond having unprotected sex, risk factors for HSP aren’t clear.

It’s possible for semen allergy to develop in women who haven’t had any prior symptoms after exposure to seminal fluids. You may also experience symptoms with one partner and not another.

Although semen allergies can develop at any time, many women report that their symptoms began during their early 30s. Older research found that many women with the disorder also experienced recurrent vaginitis prior to diagnosis.

DIAGNOSIS

How is this diagnosed?

If you’re experiencing unusual symptoms after coming into contact with seminal fluid, make an appointment to see your doctor.

If you think your symptoms are the result of a semen allergy, it’s important to speak up. Be honest with your doctor about your symptoms, and be clear about when they occur.

Research on HSP is lacking, which can make diagnosis difficult. It isn’t unheard of for doctors to mistake a semen allergy for: sexually transmitted infections like 

• chlamydia or herpes
• chronic vaginitis
• yeast infection
• bacterial vaginosis

If you feel as though your concerns aren’t being heard, ask your doctor to schedule a skin prick or intradermal test.

To do this, your doctor will need a sample of your partner’s semen. Your doctor will inject a small, diluted amount of this sample under your skin. If symptoms appear, your doctor can make a HSP diagnosis.

If the test doesn’t trigger symptoms, your doctor may take a blood draw or pursue other diagnostic testing.

TREATMENT

What treatment options are available?

Treatment for HSP aims to minimize or prevent symptoms. The best way to do this is to wear condoms every time you have sex. Men who are allergic to their own semen should also wear a condom during masturbation, though this may not prevent some body-wide symptoms.

Desensitization

If you prefer not to wear a condom, talk to your doctor about your options for desensitization.

To do this, your allergist or immunologist will place a diluted semen solution inside your vagina or onto your penis every 20 minutes or so. This process will continue until you’re able to withstand exposure to undiluted semen without experiencing symptoms.

After the initial desensitization, consistent exposure is necessary to maintain your tolerance. For example, people who are allergic to their partner’s semen will have to engage in intercourse every 48 hours.

Medication

Your doctor may also recommend that you take an over-the-counter antihistamine prior to any sexual activity. This may help minimize your symptoms, especially if you or your partner opt against using a condom to prevent exposure.

If your symptoms are severe, your doctor may recommend that you carry an EpiPen. You should inject this at the first sign of severe symptoms, and then seek immediate medical attention.

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IS PREGNANCY POSSIBLE?

Can this affect your ability to conceive?

A semen allergy can make it difficult for some women to conceive. Although the allergy doesn’t have any impact on fertility, its symptoms can interfere with your ability to have sex.

In mild cases, you may be able to take medication or use desensitization to help ease your symptoms.

But if you wish to conceive and intercourse isn’t an option, your doctor may recommend intrauterine insemination (IUI) or in vitro fertilization (IVF).

In both cases, your partner’s sperm will be washed free of proteins before it’s injected. This can help prevent an allergic reaction.

Success rates vary for IUI and IVF, so talk to your doctor about what’s best for you.

With IVF, the average woman has a 20 to 35 percent chance of becoming pregnant after one cycle. With IUI, there’s a 5 to 15 percent chance of conception after one cycle.

OTHER COMPLICATIONS

Are other complications possible?

A semen allergy can cause anaphylaxis if the condition is severe. You should seek immediate medical attention if you begin experiencing:

• difficulty breathing
• wheezing
• swollen tongue or throat
• rapid, weak pulse
• dizziness or fainting
• nausea
• vomiting

Having a semen allergy can also have a negative impact on your relationships.

If the disorder makes it difficult to be intimate with your partner, you may find it helpful to participate in couple’s therapy. Your counselor can help you and your partner navigate this diagnosis and explore other options for intimacy.

It isn’t clear whether this allergy can be passed down to your children.

OUTLOOK

What’s the outlook?

A semen allergy is a rare condition that, like any allergy, can develop or fade over time. If you’re experiencing symptoms, it’s important that you see your doctor for diagnosis.

If left untreated, a semen allergy can disrupt your sex life and affect your overall well-being. Your doctor can work with you to develop a plan for symptom management as well as possible cure.

Prophetess Lily-Rose 💜

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MOON WATER- HOLY WATER

Every celestial body emits energy that gives man what it needs for his spiritual evolution. The ancients knew this that they saw these celestial bodies as gods and  consulted them for guidance

The Sun, Moon & planets are actually gross material anchor points of radiation from substantiate mediators in the higher dimensions, who relate with the universe through their essence & to man through these celestial bodies. Celestial bodies? These planets are gross material bodies for the radiation of these beings that we can not see with our physical eye but can feel their energies.

Venus for instance is a planet of Beauty and Love, known as the most beautiful planet & also called  "Evening Star" because she makes her appearance at the early hours of the evening in the west then recedes as it gets dark.

The Moon, the mother of all the Celestial bodies, a very powerful one at that, it has direct influence on womanhood and affects the human mind. E-motional energy (energy-in-motion) is the archetype for water, no wonder the moon has such a great effect on water, causing water levels to rise in response to her fullness in power. What about the woman's menstrual circle? I leave you to do your research on that.

The moon can charge water for healing purposes, Moon water is water left overnight under the rays of the full moon or a major moon phases, which serves different purposes. But when it rains on the day of a full moon, which is rare, maybe 1 in 365 chances and you may not be alert to take advantage of the opportunity. The full moon rain water is even more energized, with thunder & lightening. The last full moon rain was on the early hours of September 7, 2017, a festival of Purity. Lucky are those who opened their being to receive the blessings mother natured poured over earth on that powerful day.

Here are tips on what you can do with "moon water":

• All the women out there are going to love this. You can wash your face with this charged Moon Water. It will beautify your skin and bring the glow on your face. Try this for few months and see your face beaming like a moon.
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• You can use this Moon Water to cleanse your crystal.
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• You can just drink this water first thing in the morning to cleanse your body. It may help empty your bowels.
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• Fill the Moon Water in spray bottle and use for cleansing the area. 
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• Sprinkle in your house or work place to remove negativity and impurities.
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• Sprinkle on yourself and others to cleanse aura

• Add this water in your food while cooking.

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• You can pray on the water with set intention to use it for any purpose.
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• Add to your bath for relaxation.
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• Anoint money.
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• Water your plants.
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• Dip your finger in water and make circle on your Third eye seven times for clarity and clairvoyance.

The interesting thing about nature is that it gives to only those who are open to it.

Happy festival of purity!

*Lily Rose*

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SOME KIND OF MEN

Chief Executive Officer of a multinational organization touching base with a maid, cleaner or some low class girl sometimes makes headlines which grabs little or no attention because it is no news any more, it is the in thing!

But what one should look at is the underlying psychological factors that make such men who are well read, carry themselves like "big men" among their peers, married to women one could see to be befitting of their status to "roll in the mud" with maids & the likes in secret. That is the issue! Why in secret? if a man feels it proper to mate with a so called classless babe why hide it? He should be man enough to defend his choice! That is it, Man enough! Is he?

Many have read & witnessed stories such as these, one can not help but feel sorry for those young women who allow themselves to be used like a step down device for high electrical current. A woman who keeps secret affairs with a man is a big fool! If it has to be a secret then it can not be right!

From observation you will find out that men who are attracted to such women have serious psychological issues, low self esteem, they never have an inner sense of worth. The need to control or oppress which they cannot do with women who are their equals attracts them to these ordinary women. This is not saying maids are not human beings, in fact some may be more inwardly matured than the so called big men and with time they outgrow each other and the man goes hunting for a replacement.

There are also men who have childhood traumas from emotional abuse watching their fathers beat up their mother & never really learnt how a man should treat a woman, their mothers boss their helpless fathers around, had abusive step mothers or female guardians, had a serious heart break from a relationship which made them have this FEAR & HATE for women who are their equals or are expressive.

A well intended advise from a woman looks like an attempt to control them, using many words to make themselves understood is labeled as talking too much. Such men are always defensive, yet offensive, they wear their egos on their sleeves, highly sensitive to sarcasm yet sarcastic & do not forgive easily once hurt, you will observe that they cannot keep a relationship because they are always finding faults, still single in their forties and maybe with baby mamas all over the place. Some patronize call girls because they do not want emotional attachments & end up marrying one because they find them submissive. Such uneducated women always substitute their illiteracy with cleverness & manipulation. Wait until they find the material comfort they seek and see their true nature.

Control should be directed inwards and not towards others, we should learn to reason with others even with children & compromise where necessary.  The need to control others is a sure sign of psychological problems which requires healing.

These kind of men cannot make good husbands & fathers. A broken man will destroy woman who connects with him emotionally! They also procreate emotionally insecure generation of men & women too!

Please seek the help of a Psychologist or Energy therapist for healing & experience true Joy, Love & Peace.

Lily Rose.

UNLEASHING THE POWER OF CRYSTALS!

An attempt was made shortly over a week ago to broach the topic of crystals and crystal energy. It explored their relationships with the physical body and how they interact with the world of matter vis a vis the energies that they absorb and emit. Mention was also made of how the physical body in return, can gain immensely from the radiations of these stones, if only mankind possessed the true knowledge of them and applied it wisely. This leads us to the topic at hand: Unleashing the Power of Crystals!

The first thing to bear in mind is that crystals are no amulets, and wearing them might serve little or no purpose, if the wearer is not adjusted to their energies. You might well find out that a crystal might just end up bringing about negative effects rather than the good. In such instances, however, it would be folly to blame the crystal. Very much the same way that you cannot expect a drug intended to teat psychotic disorders to be of any benefit to a person who sets out to treat a common cold with them! What then does this imply? Quite naturally, therefore, a crystal should be studied and observed for its effects, and initially, this can be greatly assisted by the abundance of literature available in the field.  It must be noted too, that knowledge must become conviction; and this can only come about through observation, experiencing, and all other logical conclusions that will be deduced in the course of work. That is the simple and natural way to proceed. What you then read about them becomes second nature, and even when you find yourself confronted by conflicting theorems, your experiences will easily point you in the right direction.
Quite naturally, therefore, I speak from a limited perspective, and am always open to learning more. The only privilege being, the dreams I have about them, and the consequent wonderful experiences I have had in the course of working with them.

How did it all begin? My first purchases were strictly for ornamental purposes and I displayed crystals on my window sills where they served no other purpose. Not until one fateful evening many years ago when I found my lower limbs paralyzed upon stepping into my office … This was followed by an unbearable throbbing pain which caused me to pray for help at night. Having snoozed off, a short while later, a short man with a rather huge head showed up at my bedside rather unsympathetic to my plight. “What’s wrong with you?” he inquired, almost oblivious to my pain. “My legs, I explained!” He would stare at me quizzically, almost in disbelief, before emphatically remarking: “Then use your crystals!” I was shocked to hear this and immediately woke up from this vivid trance to question him a little further. Alas, he had disappeared and was nowhere to be found! I had been dreaming! In faithful obedience to his instruction, I dragged myself like a centipede to the windowsill and grabbed a few crystals that seemed to call me… Included in this array, I remember, were Black Tourmaline, Clear Quartz and Amethyst. And like a child at play with his toys, I positioned the crystals on and around my feet … before being treated to a most bewildering spectacle! My legs vibrated rapidly like a tambourine for a few minutes and the gyration came to a sudden stop! It was like I was watching a movie! I dared to lift my feet after this “strange” experience, and to my greatest surprise, there was no pain! I would dare to stand up, and the effects were just the same! And so from strolling up and down the hallways of the gallery, I thought to strut a little faster … before eventually jogging! The elation was inexplicable! I stared out of the window in surprise at the “miracle” that had just occurred! The rest, as is commonly said, is now history.

To further cement this unusual imprint upon my spirit, a very close friend of mine who was scheduled for a goiter operation confided her fears in me. I immediately narrated my experience to her and we both agreed top “ask” … and truly an answer was given! The chosen stones were to be worn around her neck! We fashioned a band made of leather in which the stones were wrapped, and like little children, awaited a miracle … And the miracle did happen! The goiter disappeared completely, and till this very day, she never had that operation. Her doctors are still marveling and have repeatedly asked her what she concocted to have melted out the large lump. But we thought it better to keep quiet about it then …

As at this time, I had no access to literature, but was a greenhorn just exploring. So I do not
solely advocate research based on reading. An engagement with living things must mostly be done from an intuitive approach. As an aside, I recollect how my dentist told me the other day to yank out a tooth and I vehemently disagreed. He went on to explain how the tooth would get septic and he would make me sign that I refused his professional advice. It held no water with me and I asked him to go ahead and fill the tooth. I was taking responsibility for my actions! To cut a long story short, in spite of all his worries, man and tooth are living happily together today. Nothing is firmly cast in stone! The greatest mobility of spirit is needed to take accurate spot on decisions.
And returning to the gist of the subject matter, a few other dreams and experiences confirmed the following which I deem necessary to share, but which may not be altogether new to practicing “stonists!”

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• Crystals must never be employed towards evil purposes! Rather than carry out an evil task, they might eventually destroy the owner.
• Crystals are not talismans and detest any activity that seeks to worship them! The gemstone guardians work faithfully in the service of the Most High and unleash their fullest potentials when they are, first and foremost, dedicated towards the greatest good while in the service of God! This is a fundamental step that must never be overlooked! It is a mighty secret in activating them to joyful service.
• Crystals do not like working with grumpy, unhappy, morose people. A constant humble effort at bettering self is the first step to take, and they will then meet with you halfway. When a crystal tires of an individual, or feel the latter unprepared to work with them, they simply walk away…
• When wearing crystals, it is good to be cautious of your activity, most especially your thoughts. They dim rapidly under negative energy and the wearer activates their potentials through his inner life. Watch your crystals glow when they are happy! Some even explode upon taking the impact of negative energy that has been channeled in your direction!
• Crystals absorb and transmit energy constantly. Unless if you want to be cleansing your crystals every moment, you should not allow others touch the stones you wear. They are allowed to admire them at a distance.
• Knowledge of how to cleanse, charge, dedicate and program crystals is highly essential. A likely subject matter for a future discourse.
• Do not discountenance studies on crystals, but of vital note, is to let the studies come alive in your experiences. Use them! There is much more you can know about them than the writers of various books have to offer.
• A crystal possesses an energy waiting to be directed towards a specific employ. Knowing how to use and direct them is the surest way of gaining from their blessings.

At this juncture, it must be clearly stated that “unleashing the power of crystals” will demand a certain level of inner mobility from the individual. Straying away from this admonition can go as far as threatening the individual who steps out of line. Some crystals serve as amplifiers of energy and will refuse to leave the individual neutral or inactive.
I must digress momentarily to give but one example - maybe two. Take the diamond for instance. It is said to be the most precious of stones! It glitters, sparkles, and a great value is placed upon it. Because of its rarity, it is found upon many a crown and the blue-blooded are the custodians of this stone! But what purpose does the diamond really serve?? It fires volition! And for this reason, the ruling elite were to use the crystal for the greatest good of their people. In firing volition, a promise is to immediately translate into deed! Once a king speaks, he will surely not go back on his word! He will act! His words, his thoughts, his volition will be fulfilled! But take a look at all the parts of the world in which we find this stone! What hidden volition has been exposed through the power of this crystal?!
South Africa, Congo, Zaire, Liberia … I can cite many more. Why do people sometimes speak of blood diamonds? Would it then be wise to keep a stone like this around a person who is mentally deranged, or is showing potentials in that direction? Is it advisable for one not mature enough for leadership to use this crystal? Of course the diamond does other things …

Or in this day and age of licentiousness, where the act of procreation has attained to a feverish pitch, which is equally grossly evident in the despicable manner of dressing, dancing, and other sordid attendant forms of “socialization” embraced by the greater population; would it then be wise to have rubies or garnets strewn around the space of a man grappling to come to terms with his ravaging sensual instincts? These red stones, which work on the base chakra, amplify the libido! But the base chakra also controls creativity. Little wonder then that artists are sometimes bandied as being randy! In higher institutions, they are known to be the most frivolous! An inability to channel this energy upwards towards creative pursuits will always result in a lopsidedness of this expression of energy!

An inappropriate matching of partners, or, unnatural suppressions of this act, which clearly violate the Laws of Nature, will also lead to distortions of this energy that manifests itself in flirtation and other uncontrollable urges …
For now, we are gradually unveiling the mysteries surrounding “unleashing the potential energy of crystals”, and today’s exploration is preoccupied with providing a few tips in that direction. As always, I implore anyone with experiences in this field to share their encounters with us.

With joyful wishes as you tread upon this enlivening journey!

Charles Ayo Dada

Divine Love Ministeries

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THE DELINEATION OF THE SEXES! A BLESSING OR A CURSE?

THE DELINEATION OF THE SEXES! A BLESSING OR A CURSE?

It’s exceedingly pertinent to listen to the impulses of the spirit in order to remain clarified amidst the varied confusions of the modern world which unceasingly seeks to defend the manifold distortions that have been introduced into everyday normal life.

These aberrations, which today have become the norm, destroy the healthy foundations upon which the human spirit is to be anchored. This falseness also threatens to stifle the unfolding of the human spirit to its fullest potentials and prevents it from living a dignified and fulfilled life. 

Instinctively, I feel odd about men who work in hair-dressing salons! I feel funny about women who drive commercial buses! If a man would lend himself to flower arrangements as a primary vocation, I would equally feel as odd about him as I would upon seeing a woman engage in carpentry! I feel funny about female football, female wrestling, female boxing, and, yes, even about females who have lost their silent reserve and have become loud and untamed. I equally feel funny about men who find it normal to stay at home changing pampers while the woman heads to work early in the morning and returns late at night. I feel funny about men who have conceded their active roles because they earn less and I feel funny about women who have been coarsened because they earn more. I feel funny about men who are timid and cowardly, same, about women who are outrightly aggressive. I feel funny about the man who is happy to perpetually live off the woman …

The key word here is “instinctively”. Modern society would rather pelt an “old-fashioned thinker” with bricks upon having their norms challenged rather than to thoroughly contemplate the reasons why the “natural order” arranged and classified certain tasks into positive and negative activity – the active and passive – the male and female. Being the stronger, the “passive” plays the leading role!

The modern world would rather hurl stones at anyone who dares to challenge convention by maintaining that the woman first and foremost remains “Queen” in her home before extending her overwhelmingly bright influence into other spheres of human life. So many groups and bodies are gathered in wait to immediately silence such thinkers, nay, persons who are audacious enough to make any such “careless” pronouncements. 

Can it in any case be denied, that the home is the primary moulder of character, and if this “high office” is attended to faithfully, the quality of human spirits on earth today will change for the better; a previous neglect of which has birthed many known “orphaned” monstrances?! 

If the woman wills it strongly enough, she will “attract” a light spirit … This attraction also stems from her quest towards purity and the many other necessary recognitions she must imbibe - such as taking the necessary care during pregnancy – but more essentially, that the act of procreation with her partner has love as its foundation. Maybe this is a digression …  So let us return to the subject at hand!

By tearing away the barrier of the sexes, man commits one of the gravest errors known to humanity. He moves towards distorting his soul which must render him ineffective in the discharge of his duties.

I continue! I feel funny about men who walk the streets in boxers bare bodied. I feel funny about women who no longer wear skirts or dresses. I feel funny about men who prefer to stay idle rather than engage in the available “lowly” tasks to proudly earn a living. I feel funny about women who loosely exploit their femininity to earn a living.

Mind you, I am not a judge and I am not judging others! Just objectively expressing an opinion that can be objectively refuted. An instinctive one at that too - and I am sure there are others who feel the same way too even though they feel hopeless when engaging their surroundings on a daily basis.

Maybe we should ask ourselves the simple question: why did the Wise, All-Seeing Providence make me a male and you a female? Were there expectations based on those distinct delineations? Do these delineations suggest a difference in orientation and duty?

How does a true man instinctively feel upon being confronted by an overly aggressive woman and how does the true woman react to the weak, lazy and feeble man? 

Maybe we can cull from the wisdom of times gone by to enrich our understanding of this phenomenon, where we might glean the reasons why there was less crime in society, a greater respect shown towards women, lesser incidences of brutality and rape, domestic abuse, and all the many other forms of abuse prevalent on earth today.

What is the role of the ennobled woman? The God-willed woman? What is man’s role in Creation and how is he to work alongside this woman in the most harmonious of ways? What factors, qualities, will see him looking up to the woman with utmost respect? How is the converse also to occur?

These questions urgently beg answers, and if the downward spiral isn’t immediately arrested, a great calamity will soon befall this erring humanity …

Observe for yourself the chaos breaching the healthy barriers has caused!

There are many who no longer know who or what they are!

A woman with all the biological characteristics of a female gets up one day and tells you that she is a man inside and decides to have a sex change! A fine-looking man does same in reverse and tells you that he is a woman! Those born straight are perplexed at this state of affairs and those who feel they were born this way feel discriminated! Who is lying and who is being intolerant here? Truthfully speaking, none of the parties …

These aberrations stem from detracting from the natural order which is bound to have consequences and lead to varied mutations! Thus, a man who has tilted excessively towards female activity prepares in advance, the female body he will wear at a future time, while retaining the male qualities of the soul. A woman who has lost shame and has become exceedingly aggressive also prepares the male body she will wear at some point while retaining her feminine core!

Do we now understand the root causes of the many distorted souls we have around us today - the ignorance of which has led to many an aberration? Do you now understand the “genuine” agitations of the “distorted souls” who profess “strange” attractions? How a man in a female body is likewise attracted to woman in a male body, with all the attendant problems at play? How a weakening male spirit in a male body, tending towards femininity, is likewise attracted to woman in a male body? Today, upon “jumping out of the closet” they proudly profess their orientations to the dismay of “straight” persons who see no “naturalness” in this order.

Rather than encouraging this unnatural state of affairs, which sees society being flooded by all sorts of “orientations” begging acceptance, how do we provide the necessary enlightenment that will rid us of these sore afflictions? 

We can well start by ensuring that the healthy barriers between the sexes is maintained and not breached! Not in mannerism, orientation, manner of dressing, style, custom, and even manner of speech. Not in education, work, and spiritual duties! 

I hope the feminists are not fuming …

In any case, why should feminism extol anything other than the true female virtue which is pleasing to God? Is the woman not protected on account of her high sensitivity and exceedingly delicate intuition which sees her playing a leading role all the time?

Is she not the guardian of the peoples, the custodian of the virtues, the priestess of purity, the moulder of character, the upholder of Godliness, the inspiration and support of every successful man? Does she not determine the course of society with her essential volition? Do men not almost helplessly pander to her whims? Will the world not immediately change, therewith, when the woman stands in that place that was originally willed her by God? 

Is the man any less guilty on that account? Certainly not! If he stood in his rightful place, he would not condone the free fall either … But it served the unscrupulous man only too well to exploit the woman who had become lost to her true vocation!

Let us take a close look around us today … Society has crumbled! In a wild frenzy, the masses revel in sensual orgies while dancing around the gods of materialism they openly embrace and have silently enthroned in their hearts. 

A recourse to this well known historical path no longer suffices to awaken the slumbering human spirit. Not even the “unusual” signs in the sky or the warnings of the prophets can bestir the dead masses … The gyration is in top gear! The airwaves are agog with sensuality while television plays host to the decadence and immorality of the times! Dressing has reached the peak of absurdity, while in truth, many would rather wear no clothes at all!

Erstwhile, to the “sensitive”, a foreboding of an impending event spurs them on to re-examining their ways in a new light. These ones will not seek popularity and neither will they follow the broad path. On the other hand, they will be hated and chastised - bandied as hypocrites! They are outcasts in the modern world! Nonetheless they will stand strong! They will not despair on account of their surroundings but will be strengthened in the raging storm!

If only if they will but calmly follow the path, listen to the stirrings of their spirits and recognize the time at hand, they will be faithfully steered clear of the mad confusion.

These are the ones to be envied when the storm eventually breaks!

Strength, courage, peace and love, to all the children of The Light!

Charles Ayo Dada