SOME KIND OF MEN

Chief Executive Officer of a multinational organization touching base with a maid, cleaner or some low class girl sometimes makes headlines which grabs little or no attention because it is no news any more, it is the in thing!

But what one should look at is the underlying psychological factors that make such men who are well read, carry themselves like "big men" among their peers, married to women one could see to be befitting of their status to "roll in the mud" with maids & the likes in secret. That is the issue! Why in secret? if a man feels it proper to mate with a so called classless babe why hide it? He should be man enough to defend his choice! That is it, Man enough! Is he?

Many have read & witnessed stories such as these, one can not help but feel sorry for those young women who allow themselves to be used like a step down device for high electrical current. A woman who keeps secret affairs with a man is a big fool! If it has to be a secret then it can not be right!

From observation you will find out that men who are attracted to such women have serious psychological issues, low self esteem, they never have an inner sense of worth. The need to control or oppress which they cannot do with women who are their equals attracts them to these ordinary women. This is not saying maids are not human beings, in fact some may be more inwardly matured than the so called big men and with time they outgrow each other and the man goes hunting for a replacement.

There are also men who have childhood traumas from emotional abuse watching their fathers beat up their mother & never really learnt how a man should treat a woman, their mothers boss their helpless fathers around, had abusive step mothers or female guardians, had a serious heart break from a relationship which made them have this FEAR & HATE for women who are their equals or are expressive.

A well intended advise from a woman looks like an attempt to control them, using many words to make themselves understood is labeled as talking too much. Such men are always defensive, yet offensive, they wear their egos on their sleeves, highly sensitive to sarcasm yet sarcastic & do not forgive easily once hurt, you will observe that they cannot keep a relationship because they are always finding faults, still single in their forties and maybe with baby mamas all over the place. Some patronize call girls because they do not want emotional attachments & end up marrying one because they find them submissive. Such uneducated women always substitute their illiteracy with cleverness & manipulation. Wait until they find the material comfort they seek and see their true nature.

Control should be directed inwards and not towards others, we should learn to reason with others even with children & compromise where necessary.  The need to control others is a sure sign of psychological problems which requires healing.

These kind of men cannot make good husbands & fathers. A broken man will destroy woman who connects with him emotionally! They also procreate emotionally insecure generation of men & women too!

Please seek the help of a Psychologist or Energy therapist for healing & experience true Joy, Love & Peace.

Lily Rose.