THE DELINEATION OF THE SEXES! A BLESSING OR A CURSE?
It’s exceedingly pertinent to listen to the impulses of the spirit in order to remain clarified amidst the varied confusions of the modern world which unceasingly seeks to defend the manifold distortions that have been introduced into everyday normal life.
These aberrations, which today have become the norm, destroy the healthy foundations upon which the human spirit is to be anchored. This falseness also threatens to stifle the unfolding of the human spirit to its fullest potentials and prevents it from living a dignified and fulfilled life.
Instinctively, I feel odd about men who work in hair-dressing salons! I feel funny about women who drive commercial buses! If a man would lend himself to flower arrangements as a primary vocation, I would equally feel as odd about him as I would upon seeing a woman engage in carpentry! I feel funny about female football, female wrestling, female boxing, and, yes, even about females who have lost their silent reserve and have become loud and untamed. I equally feel funny about men who find it normal to stay at home changing pampers while the woman heads to work early in the morning and returns late at night. I feel funny about men who have conceded their active roles because they earn less and I feel funny about women who have been coarsened because they earn more. I feel funny about men who are timid and cowardly, same, about women who are outrightly aggressive. I feel funny about the man who is happy to perpetually live off the woman …
The key word here is “instinctively”. Modern society would rather pelt an “old-fashioned thinker” with bricks upon having their norms challenged rather than to thoroughly contemplate the reasons why the “natural order” arranged and classified certain tasks into positive and negative activity – the active and passive – the male and female. Being the stronger, the “passive” plays the leading role!
The modern world would rather hurl stones at anyone who dares to challenge convention by maintaining that the woman first and foremost remains “Queen” in her home before extending her overwhelmingly bright influence into other spheres of human life. So many groups and bodies are gathered in wait to immediately silence such thinkers, nay, persons who are audacious enough to make any such “careless” pronouncements.
Can it in any case be denied, that the home is the primary moulder of character, and if this “high office” is attended to faithfully, the quality of human spirits on earth today will change for the better; a previous neglect of which has birthed many known “orphaned” monstrances?!
If the woman wills it strongly enough, she will “attract” a light spirit … This attraction also stems from her quest towards purity and the many other necessary recognitions she must imbibe - such as taking the necessary care during pregnancy – but more essentially, that the act of procreation with her partner has love as its foundation. Maybe this is a digression … So let us return to the subject at hand!
By tearing away the barrier of the sexes, man commits one of the gravest errors known to humanity. He moves towards distorting his soul which must render him ineffective in the discharge of his duties.
I continue! I feel funny about men who walk the streets in boxers bare bodied. I feel funny about women who no longer wear skirts or dresses. I feel funny about men who prefer to stay idle rather than engage in the available “lowly” tasks to proudly earn a living. I feel funny about women who loosely exploit their femininity to earn a living.
Mind you, I am not a judge and I am not judging others! Just objectively expressing an opinion that can be objectively refuted. An instinctive one at that too - and I am sure there are others who feel the same way too even though they feel hopeless when engaging their surroundings on a daily basis.
Maybe we should ask ourselves the simple question: why did the Wise, All-Seeing Providence make me a male and you a female? Were there expectations based on those distinct delineations? Do these delineations suggest a difference in orientation and duty?
How does a true man instinctively feel upon being confronted by an overly aggressive woman and how does the true woman react to the weak, lazy and feeble man?
Maybe we can cull from the wisdom of times gone by to enrich our understanding of this phenomenon, where we might glean the reasons why there was less crime in society, a greater respect shown towards women, lesser incidences of brutality and rape, domestic abuse, and all the many other forms of abuse prevalent on earth today.
What is the role of the ennobled woman? The God-willed woman? What is man’s role in Creation and how is he to work alongside this woman in the most harmonious of ways? What factors, qualities, will see him looking up to the woman with utmost respect? How is the converse also to occur?
These questions urgently beg answers, and if the downward spiral isn’t immediately arrested, a great calamity will soon befall this erring humanity …
Observe for yourself the chaos breaching the healthy barriers has caused!
There are many who no longer know who or what they are!
A woman with all the biological characteristics of a female gets up one day and tells you that she is a man inside and decides to have a sex change! A fine-looking man does same in reverse and tells you that he is a woman! Those born straight are perplexed at this state of affairs and those who feel they were born this way feel discriminated! Who is lying and who is being intolerant here? Truthfully speaking, none of the parties …
These aberrations stem from detracting from the natural order which is bound to have consequences and lead to varied mutations! Thus, a man who has tilted excessively towards female activity prepares in advance, the female body he will wear at a future time, while retaining the male qualities of the soul. A woman who has lost shame and has become exceedingly aggressive also prepares the male body she will wear at some point while retaining her feminine core!
Do we now understand the root causes of the many distorted souls we have around us today - the ignorance of which has led to many an aberration? Do you now understand the “genuine” agitations of the “distorted souls” who profess “strange” attractions? How a man in a female body is likewise attracted to woman in a male body, with all the attendant problems at play? How a weakening male spirit in a male body, tending towards femininity, is likewise attracted to woman in a male body? Today, upon “jumping out of the closet” they proudly profess their orientations to the dismay of “straight” persons who see no “naturalness” in this order.
Rather than encouraging this unnatural state of affairs, which sees society being flooded by all sorts of “orientations” begging acceptance, how do we provide the necessary enlightenment that will rid us of these sore afflictions?
We can well start by ensuring that the healthy barriers between the sexes is maintained and not breached! Not in mannerism, orientation, manner of dressing, style, custom, and even manner of speech. Not in education, work, and spiritual duties!
I hope the feminists are not fuming …
In any case, why should feminism extol anything other than the true female virtue which is pleasing to God? Is the woman not protected on account of her high sensitivity and exceedingly delicate intuition which sees her playing a leading role all the time?
Is she not the guardian of the peoples, the custodian of the virtues, the priestess of purity, the moulder of character, the upholder of Godliness, the inspiration and support of every successful man? Does she not determine the course of society with her essential volition? Do men not almost helplessly pander to her whims? Will the world not immediately change, therewith, when the woman stands in that place that was originally willed her by God?
Is the man any less guilty on that account? Certainly not! If he stood in his rightful place, he would not condone the free fall either … But it served the unscrupulous man only too well to exploit the woman who had become lost to her true vocation!
Let us take a close look around us today … Society has crumbled! In a wild frenzy, the masses revel in sensual orgies while dancing around the gods of materialism they openly embrace and have silently enthroned in their hearts.
A recourse to this well known historical path no longer suffices to awaken the slumbering human spirit. Not even the “unusual” signs in the sky or the warnings of the prophets can bestir the dead masses … The gyration is in top gear! The airwaves are agog with sensuality while television plays host to the decadence and immorality of the times! Dressing has reached the peak of absurdity, while in truth, many would rather wear no clothes at all!
Erstwhile, to the “sensitive”, a foreboding of an impending event spurs them on to re-examining their ways in a new light. These ones will not seek popularity and neither will they follow the broad path. On the other hand, they will be hated and chastised - bandied as hypocrites! They are outcasts in the modern world! Nonetheless they will stand strong! They will not despair on account of their surroundings but will be strengthened in the raging storm!
If only if they will but calmly follow the path, listen to the stirrings of their spirits and recognize the time at hand, they will be faithfully steered clear of the mad confusion.
These are the ones to be envied when the storm eventually breaks!
Strength, courage, peace and love, to all the children of The Light!
Charles Ayo Dada
