SOME KIND OF MEN

Chief Executive Officer of a multinational organization touching base with a maid, cleaner or some low class girl sometimes makes headlines which grabs little or no attention because it is no news any more, it is the in thing!

But what one should look at is the underlying psychological factors that make such men who are well read, carry themselves like "big men" among their peers, married to women one could see to be befitting of their status to "roll in the mud" with maids & the likes in secret. That is the issue! Why in secret? if a man feels it proper to mate with a so called classless babe why hide it? He should be man enough to defend his choice! That is it, Man enough! Is he?

Many have read & witnessed stories such as these, one can not help but feel sorry for those young women who allow themselves to be used like a step down device for high electrical current. A woman who keeps secret affairs with a man is a big fool! If it has to be a secret then it can not be right!

From observation you will find out that men who are attracted to such women have serious psychological issues, low self esteem, they never have an inner sense of worth. The need to control or oppress which they cannot do with women who are their equals attracts them to these ordinary women. This is not saying maids are not human beings, in fact some may be more inwardly matured than the so called big men and with time they outgrow each other and the man goes hunting for a replacement.

There are also men who have childhood traumas from emotional abuse watching their fathers beat up their mother & never really learnt how a man should treat a woman, their mothers boss their helpless fathers around, had abusive step mothers or female guardians, had a serious heart break from a relationship which made them have this FEAR & HATE for women who are their equals or are expressive.

A well intended advise from a woman looks like an attempt to control them, using many words to make themselves understood is labeled as talking too much. Such men are always defensive, yet offensive, they wear their egos on their sleeves, highly sensitive to sarcasm yet sarcastic & do not forgive easily once hurt, you will observe that they cannot keep a relationship because they are always finding faults, still single in their forties and maybe with baby mamas all over the place. Some patronize call girls because they do not want emotional attachments & end up marrying one because they find them submissive. Such uneducated women always substitute their illiteracy with cleverness & manipulation. Wait until they find the material comfort they seek and see their true nature.

Control should be directed inwards and not towards others, we should learn to reason with others even with children & compromise where necessary.  The need to control others is a sure sign of psychological problems which requires healing.

These kind of men cannot make good husbands & fathers. A broken man will destroy woman who connects with him emotionally! They also procreate emotionally insecure generation of men & women too!

Please seek the help of a Psychologist or Energy therapist for healing & experience true Joy, Love & Peace.

Lily Rose.

UNLEASHING THE POWER OF CRYSTALS!

An attempt was made shortly over a week ago to broach the topic of crystals and crystal energy. It explored their relationships with the physical body and how they interact with the world of matter vis a vis the energies that they absorb and emit. Mention was also made of how the physical body in return, can gain immensely from the radiations of these stones, if only mankind possessed the true knowledge of them and applied it wisely. This leads us to the topic at hand: Unleashing the Power of Crystals!

The first thing to bear in mind is that crystals are no amulets, and wearing them might serve little or no purpose, if the wearer is not adjusted to their energies. You might well find out that a crystal might just end up bringing about negative effects rather than the good. In such instances, however, it would be folly to blame the crystal. Very much the same way that you cannot expect a drug intended to teat psychotic disorders to be of any benefit to a person who sets out to treat a common cold with them! What then does this imply? Quite naturally, therefore, a crystal should be studied and observed for its effects, and initially, this can be greatly assisted by the abundance of literature available in the field.  It must be noted too, that knowledge must become conviction; and this can only come about through observation, experiencing, and all other logical conclusions that will be deduced in the course of work. That is the simple and natural way to proceed. What you then read about them becomes second nature, and even when you find yourself confronted by conflicting theorems, your experiences will easily point you in the right direction.
Quite naturally, therefore, I speak from a limited perspective, and am always open to learning more. The only privilege being, the dreams I have about them, and the consequent wonderful experiences I have had in the course of working with them.

How did it all begin? My first purchases were strictly for ornamental purposes and I displayed crystals on my window sills where they served no other purpose. Not until one fateful evening many years ago when I found my lower limbs paralyzed upon stepping into my office … This was followed by an unbearable throbbing pain which caused me to pray for help at night. Having snoozed off, a short while later, a short man with a rather huge head showed up at my bedside rather unsympathetic to my plight. “What’s wrong with you?” he inquired, almost oblivious to my pain. “My legs, I explained!” He would stare at me quizzically, almost in disbelief, before emphatically remarking: “Then use your crystals!” I was shocked to hear this and immediately woke up from this vivid trance to question him a little further. Alas, he had disappeared and was nowhere to be found! I had been dreaming! In faithful obedience to his instruction, I dragged myself like a centipede to the windowsill and grabbed a few crystals that seemed to call me… Included in this array, I remember, were Black Tourmaline, Clear Quartz and Amethyst. And like a child at play with his toys, I positioned the crystals on and around my feet … before being treated to a most bewildering spectacle! My legs vibrated rapidly like a tambourine for a few minutes and the gyration came to a sudden stop! It was like I was watching a movie! I dared to lift my feet after this “strange” experience, and to my greatest surprise, there was no pain! I would dare to stand up, and the effects were just the same! And so from strolling up and down the hallways of the gallery, I thought to strut a little faster … before eventually jogging! The elation was inexplicable! I stared out of the window in surprise at the “miracle” that had just occurred! The rest, as is commonly said, is now history.

To further cement this unusual imprint upon my spirit, a very close friend of mine who was scheduled for a goiter operation confided her fears in me. I immediately narrated my experience to her and we both agreed top “ask” … and truly an answer was given! The chosen stones were to be worn around her neck! We fashioned a band made of leather in which the stones were wrapped, and like little children, awaited a miracle … And the miracle did happen! The goiter disappeared completely, and till this very day, she never had that operation. Her doctors are still marveling and have repeatedly asked her what she concocted to have melted out the large lump. But we thought it better to keep quiet about it then …

As at this time, I had no access to literature, but was a greenhorn just exploring. So I do not
solely advocate research based on reading. An engagement with living things must mostly be done from an intuitive approach. As an aside, I recollect how my dentist told me the other day to yank out a tooth and I vehemently disagreed. He went on to explain how the tooth would get septic and he would make me sign that I refused his professional advice. It held no water with me and I asked him to go ahead and fill the tooth. I was taking responsibility for my actions! To cut a long story short, in spite of all his worries, man and tooth are living happily together today. Nothing is firmly cast in stone! The greatest mobility of spirit is needed to take accurate spot on decisions.
And returning to the gist of the subject matter, a few other dreams and experiences confirmed the following which I deem necessary to share, but which may not be altogether new to practicing “stonists!”

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• Crystals must never be employed towards evil purposes! Rather than carry out an evil task, they might eventually destroy the owner.
• Crystals are not talismans and detest any activity that seeks to worship them! The gemstone guardians work faithfully in the service of the Most High and unleash their fullest potentials when they are, first and foremost, dedicated towards the greatest good while in the service of God! This is a fundamental step that must never be overlooked! It is a mighty secret in activating them to joyful service.
• Crystals do not like working with grumpy, unhappy, morose people. A constant humble effort at bettering self is the first step to take, and they will then meet with you halfway. When a crystal tires of an individual, or feel the latter unprepared to work with them, they simply walk away…
• When wearing crystals, it is good to be cautious of your activity, most especially your thoughts. They dim rapidly under negative energy and the wearer activates their potentials through his inner life. Watch your crystals glow when they are happy! Some even explode upon taking the impact of negative energy that has been channeled in your direction!
• Crystals absorb and transmit energy constantly. Unless if you want to be cleansing your crystals every moment, you should not allow others touch the stones you wear. They are allowed to admire them at a distance.
• Knowledge of how to cleanse, charge, dedicate and program crystals is highly essential. A likely subject matter for a future discourse.
• Do not discountenance studies on crystals, but of vital note, is to let the studies come alive in your experiences. Use them! There is much more you can know about them than the writers of various books have to offer.
• A crystal possesses an energy waiting to be directed towards a specific employ. Knowing how to use and direct them is the surest way of gaining from their blessings.

At this juncture, it must be clearly stated that “unleashing the power of crystals” will demand a certain level of inner mobility from the individual. Straying away from this admonition can go as far as threatening the individual who steps out of line. Some crystals serve as amplifiers of energy and will refuse to leave the individual neutral or inactive.
I must digress momentarily to give but one example - maybe two. Take the diamond for instance. It is said to be the most precious of stones! It glitters, sparkles, and a great value is placed upon it. Because of its rarity, it is found upon many a crown and the blue-blooded are the custodians of this stone! But what purpose does the diamond really serve?? It fires volition! And for this reason, the ruling elite were to use the crystal for the greatest good of their people. In firing volition, a promise is to immediately translate into deed! Once a king speaks, he will surely not go back on his word! He will act! His words, his thoughts, his volition will be fulfilled! But take a look at all the parts of the world in which we find this stone! What hidden volition has been exposed through the power of this crystal?!
South Africa, Congo, Zaire, Liberia … I can cite many more. Why do people sometimes speak of blood diamonds? Would it then be wise to keep a stone like this around a person who is mentally deranged, or is showing potentials in that direction? Is it advisable for one not mature enough for leadership to use this crystal? Of course the diamond does other things …

Or in this day and age of licentiousness, where the act of procreation has attained to a feverish pitch, which is equally grossly evident in the despicable manner of dressing, dancing, and other sordid attendant forms of “socialization” embraced by the greater population; would it then be wise to have rubies or garnets strewn around the space of a man grappling to come to terms with his ravaging sensual instincts? These red stones, which work on the base chakra, amplify the libido! But the base chakra also controls creativity. Little wonder then that artists are sometimes bandied as being randy! In higher institutions, they are known to be the most frivolous! An inability to channel this energy upwards towards creative pursuits will always result in a lopsidedness of this expression of energy!

An inappropriate matching of partners, or, unnatural suppressions of this act, which clearly violate the Laws of Nature, will also lead to distortions of this energy that manifests itself in flirtation and other uncontrollable urges …
For now, we are gradually unveiling the mysteries surrounding “unleashing the potential energy of crystals”, and today’s exploration is preoccupied with providing a few tips in that direction. As always, I implore anyone with experiences in this field to share their encounters with us.

With joyful wishes as you tread upon this enlivening journey!

Charles Ayo Dada

Divine Love Ministeries

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