Gender equality is the state in which access to rights or opportunities is unaffected by gender. That is what gender equality is suppose to be! provided the opportunities and rights referred to are basic, required by both gender to co-exist without conflict which means these rights and opportunities are not in themselves gender sensitive. Eg activities that require a lot of physical and intellectual effort are different from activities that requires delicate, sensitive hands.
Today gender equality is understood by many women as competition with men. Making all effort to play masculine roles better than men! In sports, jobs and in habits. ignoring her own purpose of existence, seeing her weak vessel as a sure sign of weakness without making the effort to understand why it is so.
Nature has settled this strive for equality with the way both sexes are created physiologically, psychologically and Psychically. A woman's body can never play the role of a man, no matter how she chooses to distort it, the coarse nature of man is not entirely physical but rooted in his psychic nature which reflects in his thought processes. A woman is an embodiment of passive energy which is emotional and spiritual in nature while the man is active energy which is physical and mental. Both passive and active energies are needed for balance in every activity.
When the man does not get the emotional and spiritual support he needs he harnesses his physical and intellectual abilities then direct them only towards acquiring the material which makes him cold and disconnected. He becomes brutal to any who threatens to take from him what makes him feel like a man! And negotiate hard before he parts with it.
Vanity has made the woman of today to be disconnected from her inner nature, she lacks knowledge of what she is made of, her inner strength so powerful forms for her what she desires, her ability to carry another human life made her a co-creator. When a woman losses touch with the power within she begins to look for every distraction possible to take her away from the state of emptiness and helplessness, she becomes a slave to anything that can provide that temporary relief from the pressure within that continuously haunts her for an awakening, a help many women ignore and even fight!
A woman needs a man! The need is not sexual but physical and mental. A woman can not possess the intellectual abilities of a man, her emotional nature simply impairs this, but her spirit, subtle in nature only see things in pictures, several pictures at the same time due to the mobility of her passive energy in planes beyond the physical.
For a volition to manifest, it requires the following process before materialization can occur. The spiritual energy is the life force, the source of the idea, the emotional energy (aka energy in motion) animates and gives it mobility, the intellect provides it a vehicle for expression while the physical energy gives it structure. Understanding this process may help women understand their role in the scheme of things then help them adjust to activities that are best suited to their gender.
In the realm of the physical and the intellect men are superior to women. In the realm of emotions and the spiritual a woman is more in tuned there. The man is structured to bend the coarse to his WILL while the woman is made to 'subtly' direct the will of the man with her emotional and spiritual support. Where a man is confronted by the coarse he goes into the bending mode and he will use all his physical and intellectual energy to get it to materialise according to his own volition. A coarse woman will only make herself an object to be abused and battered by men. A volition she unconsciously express via her discordant energy! In the end it is her will and the man simply obeys.
I share the same views on this topic with the Olori of Ife. I have never been a fan of gender equality, women can not be equal to men in every thing. They are two parallel lines that will only cross when the passive/feminine aligns in humility, submission or Love to create the horizontal flow of energy that then crosses the vertical/masculine/active energy of the man to form balance, support and harmony the required condition to uplift anything they direct their volitions.
Women are men are not equals, not even a trans-gender surgery can make this possible! Going back to the original plan as ordained by nature is the solution to this ill feeling of marginalization.
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