Experience must have shown some people that some idioms, quotes or proverbs don't apply in our present day life say for instance "a problem shared is half solved" is it truly so in most cases if not all? Yes that feeling of release that comes from giving verbal expression to our emotions to a listening ear instead of allowing it ruminate in our minds is sure a good thing but what happens next?
A lot of people carry all sort of biases, no wonder it feels safer to share certain intimate things with total strangers because they have no motive than with people we know who may use it as a weapon to stigmatize, manipulate or attack us.
Not all listening ears are compassionate. Releasing your emotions to a biased mind is as dangerous as whispering into the ears of a Lion in his sleep he will wake up and make a good meal out of you.
A person who secretly envies you will be happy your life isn't perfect afterall or hate you for making them feel even more inferior if your small problems which you make to sound like a nightmare when you talk about them would be a blessing to them.
Some will use the experiences you have shared against you by treating you the same way the people in the experience you narrated just to make you feel bad any time you do not oblige their unholy requests. For example a lusting man will definitely want people to know how your last marriage ended badly & blame it on you just for people to see you as the villain as a defense just in case you voice out his lustful advances, even if you don't have it in mind to talk about it & probably too embarrassed to share.
There are those who use any information they gather about people they don't even know against them. These are group of misunderstood souls who use other people's rumours & stories as a distraction from their own problems. They also use it to expand their circle of hate so that wherever their victims turn they will experience their hate. You have to be really strong to be able to withstand these level of negativity especially if you are sensitive & can pick energy.
Be good even to those haters that is the best form of defence but ensure to keep a good boundary & never lower the bridge for them to initiate you into their circle of gossipers & haters.
Most of us may have witnessed how two close friends spill their can of worms in public when they have a disagreement that's because they were never friends but two envious people who cannot but come together to experience each other.
A situation where only one person is the one spilling dirts while the other keeps quiet shows that the spiller was never a friend but an envious leech on the other shocked friend who is not into opening other people's can of worms even when their privacy is being exposed.
The place of worship should actually be an ideal place for one to go to when in need of emotional support but you will also find out that those who claim to be pastors, evangelist, prophets or whatever title they choose to call themselves are not at all equipped for the job. They are just pastors etc. by title who don't have the ability to manifest the job description. Many of them are bunch of lousy idiots who use people's story for round table commentaries. That's how they get to prophesy about you as if they know you, a story coming from a gossip source is no prophesy.
We have also seen cases where husbands spill the bin on their wives & vice versa so who do we open up to? The total stranger or our diary?
While experience has thought me the above and I know well to keep things to myself & people wonder why I appear mysterious "ten times bitten hundred times shy" don't be like me! it can kill you from within or make you ice cold when you are repeatedly betrayed by people you feel should be compassionate. You will need the spirit of the phoenix like Lily-Rose to even open your mouth to talk to people again.
People will use anything against you just to hurt you which further breaks you down. Whatever you know that you don't want a third ear to hear should remain in your brain, in your diary or to God whom you can pray to every time you feel the pressure to release the emotional tension. There are unseen listeners (your spirit guides) they also respond if only your inner ears can hear them advice. Work on your intuition!
Some of these experiences are also help from the Light to enable us appreciate the value of Silence! The law of Silence is a protection! Silence is another topic for another day.
My prayer for those who have been made by circumstances to live a solitary life due to the overwhelming energy of selfishness, envy & hate in our world today is for them to find the strength within to awaken & nurture the Love inside their hearts which like a rose shall blossom to attract fellow human beings with like nature so they can experience joyful and uplifting exchange. In the name of the divine Love of God. Amen.
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Prophetess Lily-Rose π
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